EYONA IINDAWO KUHLANGANA ILUNGELO KULUTSHA

Ngelishwa, le kwimeko yesi-kuphela existed apha kum entloko

Ukuba ufuna anayithathela sele omnye kuba ngexesha kwaye akasoze yanelisa okulungileyo omnye abantu abakhoyo e yakho umphakamo, ungafuna yokucinga ngayoApho kufuneka ahlangane omnye abantu. Ukuba ufuna anayithathela sele omnye kuba ngexesha kwaye nje andinaku yanelisa aph, omnye abantu abakhoyo e yakho umphakamo, ucinga kukho into engalunganga kunye nawe. Kodwa inyaniso kukuba ube ujonge kwi-ezingachanekanga iindawo. Kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo, mna assumed ukuba kwakukho enye kuphela indawo ukuya kuhlangana umntu kwi bar. Mna imagined ukuba mna ke ehleli e itheyibhile yedwa, kunye ezandleni zam zizele. a glass of iwayini, ujonge ezantsi zivela boredom, kwi-heels kwaye kokufuna a pickup, kodwa kanjalo vaguely mysterious ngokwaneleyo kuba a guy ukufumana kum fascinating. Ngoko ke, ndandicinga ukuba abantu babeya i wesalathisi phezu kwam, ukuba sithanda qala unxibelelwano, exchange amanani, baze baphile happily ngonaphakade emva. I-boys musa uhambo phezu iinkwenkwezi kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kuwa. Ungaya ngaphandle ngomhla ukutsiba kuba isibhozo Saturdays kwaye kuhlangana umntu, okanye ungathi get lucky okokuqala.

Ukusukela ukuba oku kungumsebenzi a lottery, kubekho i-lula ngakumbi isebenziseke indlela kuhlangana ilungelo amadoda nabafazi.

Ewe, ke ixesha buza abahlobo bakho ukuba babe nokwazi nabani na izakuba anomdla kuyo, kwaye ukuba ndiza kuba anomdla kuzo.

Nkqu ukuba ahlangane e a bar, ngu, betha, i-unobuhle nto

Nkqu nokuba ngaba anayithathela mhlawumbi wachitha ezininzi ixesha uzama ukufumana phandle, ngoku lixesha kuba ukuba buza paternalistic abahlobo thina angenise ukuba Glenn, HR, ngenxa yokuba uzive uxolo kuwe:"Malunga nam, yintoni kufuneka."Kodwa ukususela, kwi-essence, kufuneka ubeke uthando lwakho ubomi ezandleni omnye umntu, kubalulekile ukufumana ilungelo umhlobo. Cela umntu okwaziyo ngo intliziyo kwaye ngubani kakhulu perceptive. Kwaye jonga ongumhlobo wakho. Ukuba ufuna ukufumana umhlobo wakho inyama kunye nabafana, oko kuthetha ukuba abantu uzamile enye into. Ukuba unengxaki dog, i-hamba yobulali Park yindlela elungileyo indlela kuhlangana abantu abathi bahamba izinja zabo. Nkqu ukuba Itwitter ngu ukubhiyozela yayo oweshumi isikhumbuzo kwaye yakho grandmother ubani Facebook-akhawunti, abantu bamele ngxi skeptical malunga ne-intanethi Dating.

Bathi,"andicingi ukuba umsebenzi,andicingi ukuba umsebenzi,"kwaye"kufuneka ahlangane umntu kwi-yokwenene ebomini."Baninzi free Dating zephondo ukuba ukwamkela amakhulu amawaka eligible abantu nje ilindele ukuba get in touch kunye nabo.

Uyakwazi ukukhangela nge-city, udidi, ubudala, njalo njalo. Ukubonelelwa ngabantu ngoku Dating, i-intanethi kunye zakho zilungile boyfriend kusenokuba nje ezimbalwa ucofa kude kuwe. Awunako njenge ibhola ekhatywayo, kodwa kukho literally amawaka guys e-ibhola ekhatywayo imidlalo kwaye kuphela handful yabasetyhini. Oku kuthetha ukuba kufuneka elungileyo ithuba ukuhlangabezana i umdla guy. Kunjalo, kufuneka ukufunda umdlalo kwangaphambili ngoko ke ukuba uyakwazi thetha the name freak. Emva zonke, wena musa ufuna kusala ngaphandle xa sukuba ndimbuza into yakho iqela ubizwa ngokuba Lakers, kwaye ufumana impendulo,"i-Lakers."Nto ngokulula not out, umhlobo wam. Ukuba ufuna musa njenge name, kwakutheni zama yomhlaba yombhoxo? I-bar uya kuzala, kwaye kuya kubakho boys kuyo yonke indawo. Yehlabathi ufumana enye okulungileyo umdlalo.

Ukuba kukho malunga isiganeko kule ndawo ukuba wenze into kwenza into, unomdla, umzekelo, iimifanekiso, ushishino, Ezemali, ukubhala, njl.

njl, ngenxa yokuba musa get kunye kwaye musa khangela ukuba uyakwazi kuhlangana. Nawe zange ndiyazi, mhlawumbi uza kuba umhla. Kunjalo, ungaya yesikolo kwi-i-ngokuhlwa okanye umhla esikolweni, kodwa ukuba unengxaki hectic umsebenzi kwaye a hectic nobomi jula ugange izinti phezulu, ubusuku esikolweni ngu elikhulu kwindawo ukufumana kunye njengoko abantwana bacinga. Zonke kufuneka senze ngu khetha isihloko ukuba umdla kuwe, ahlawule irhafu yakho, kwaye unoxanduva free. Kwaye nkqu ukuba wena musa kuhlangana umntu omtsha, noko ke, ukuze ufumane izakhono ezitsha. Ukuba uyazi ukuba classic car bonisa ngu elandelayo kuni, unako ukwenza kakhulu bangaphaya yima nge ukubona oko ke, malunga. Nkqu ukuba iimoto aren ukuba ngenene yakho nto, kufuneka sazi ukuba kuya kubakho ezininzi igesi abantu ujonge phambili intlanganiso a kubekho inkqubela ngubani onako impress wena kunye wheels kwaye ulwazi. Kunjalo, usenokuba ufuna ukuva enjalo disturbing kwaye leqela le mimiselo njengoko"iqanda sixties"kwaye"wasiqhekeza horsepower,"kodwa unako kanjalo kuhlangana a ngenene dreamy guy abo drives a Mercedes kwaye ikhangela omtsha, umfazi. Ngenxa sci-Fi conventions ziindleko ezinkulu indlela kuhlangana icacile, yintoni baye nokuba yakho umdla ngala. Ukuba ufuna anayithathela kuvakala Batman kwaye unako buza imibuzo embalwa malunga comics, i-guys iya kuba anomdla kuwe.

Xa ngaba ngokuqinisekileyo shouldn uyixelele le recruiter ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha imisebenzi ngenxa yokuba"ndifuna ukutshintsha imisebenzi", kufuneka ngokuqinisekileyo cinga ukutshintsha yakho khondo lobungcali-mfundo lilonke ukuba hate yakho yangoku umsebenzi kwaye zonke guys kusenokuba boring, okungekuko, okanye atshate.

Ukutshintsha umsebenzi wakho unako zithetha omtsha kum, kwaye inika ngaba ithuba ukuphucula ngokwakho, ngokunjalo ithuba kuhlangana entsha abantu. Kukho ezahlukeneyo careers ukuba uyakwazi zama, kodwa ke kubalulekile ukuba siqwalasele into ukuba iyahambelana yakho abilities. Umhleli wencoko yababininame nights kunye nabahlobo ziindleko ezinkulu indlela kuhlangana abantu. Msinyane umfanekiso uba ngoluhlobo: Kwenu zahlangana Beyonce kunye yakhe imitation, kwaye ngoku yena ufuna ukuba duet naye"Ilungelo ezantsi abo thina belong ukuba". Konke okuqulethwe kule ndawo zenza ngokupheleleyo eyodwa kwaye copyrighted. Ukuba ufuna ukuba wabele abanye bethu ihamba kunye nezinye mathiriyali, nceda fakela esebenzayo ikhonkco. Lonke ulwazi ngale ndawo zenza alungiselelwe ezinolwazi ngeenjongo kuphela kwaye asililo elicetyiswayo. Nceda udibane yakho kugqirha kuba ingcebiso, hayi ngokwakho. Siya kusoloko zama ukuba uza kukubonelela nge eyona kwaye uninzi ulwazi oluchanekileyo apha, kodwa unoxanduva eyakho iintshukumo. Ngaba abakho eliphathiswe kwenzeka ntoni njengoko ngenxa usebenzisa le ngcaciso apha.