Ukuva yedwa ufumana kunzima, yintoni ungakwazi ukuyenza? Zam Endizithandayo

Oku, ngokulandelelanayo, yenza lengxaki nkqu makhulu

Yintoni ezininzi andazi kukuba asingabo bodwa njani na baye bazive, hayi umzekelo-icatshulwe yokuba banako ichiza oku loneliness ngokwaboNgelishwa, akukho kuphela isisombululo ingxaki ka-loneliness. Kukho kusenokuba eziliqela ezahlukeneyo iinkcazelo ngasemva kutheni umntu unako bazive yedwa kwaye eziliqela ezahlukeneyo izisombululo ukuba ingxaki.

Kodwa kule ntlanganiso kunye nabanye, thina sikhula abantu

Kodwa inye into kuba uqinisekile: ezindleleni kude solitude iqala kunye nawe. Ngenxa loneliness abantu abaninzi bazive abantu kuba kwalomgaqo-siseko yearning ukufumana inyaniso uthando, ngeli lixa bazive powerless wakhe phendla. Ukuva yedwa kwaye ucinga ukuba uthando ufumana into kufuneka ukufumana ukuba nako ukuze ndonwabe kuxhaphakile. Oku uyaya kanye kanye ngokungqinelana ne-misconception ukuba uthando ayikwazi zikho naphi na ngaphandle ngokwakho, kwaye ukuba uyakwazi ukuba uzive ndonwabe phambi kwenu ukulifumana. Oku misinterpretation ligama lakho, abaninzi ukukhangela ukuba umntu othile enze nabo baziva wamthanda. Kule imeko ka-ndinovelwano yedwa kulula ucinga ukuba uthando kuphela ikhona ngaphandle ngokwakho. Ucinga kwezi iindlela unako wokhuselo kufuneka kwi painful circulation ka-longing kwaye anticipation.

Mhlawumbi weva kusithiwa"awunokwazi uthando omnye umntu ongomnye phambi kwenu uthando ngokwakho".

Nangona kunjalo ukuba esi statement into abantu abaninzi kuba wathi kuye ukusukela lwabantwana abancinane, uninzi kuba tendency ukuba xana la mazwi, ukukholwa ukuba uthando iza xa usenza ukuthanda umntu ongomnye. Uthando oneself ufumana i-immensely obaluleke bonke abantu ke bakalevi, ubunzulu yakho yeemvakalelo zakho ubomi rests i-zimvo kufuneka kuba ngokwakho. Kuxhomekeke njani ezi jonga, ufuna ukuthumela ngaphandle imiqondiso yosasazo ukuba ufaka abafanelekileyo luthando okanye hayi. Xa uthando ngokwakho ingaba ilungile kuba omnye uthando ebomini bakho - uthando ukusuka kwelinye. Yi-learning njani ukwenza amazinga emhlabeni kuba uthando ebomini bakho, ungafumana ngakumbi uthando ukusuka yakho imeko-bume. Kunjalo, kubalulekile akukho lula into ukumisa ndinovelwano yedwa. Kodwa ukuba uzama ukufumana phandle ukusuka apho ndinovelwano ivela kwaye yintoni ungakwazi utshintsho ebomini bakho ukwenza uziva ngaphantsi yedwa, unoxanduva kakuhle kwi indlela yakho. Ngo realizing ukuba uphelelwe kukunceda kakhulu a ubomi ngaphandle intsingiselo uluvo loneliness kwaye ngo ubeko oko kwenza ukuba uziva yedwa, ungafumana into ngethemba unako ukutshintsha imeko yakho. Mhlawumbi kukho ezinye association uyakwazi ukungena? Kukho loluntu amaqela zonke iintlobo ezininzi ezonakeleyo: ekuphekeni iintlobo, emidlalo, ukufunda ngamaqela. Oko uziva ngathi usasebenzisa kunzima ukufumana i-ezingundoqo yakho loneliness, ungasoloko funa uncedo nokuncediswa. Ukuthetha nge mntu incredibly eluncedo kwaye ngaphezulu ngokufanayo kunokuba ezininzi ingaba ucinga.

Uphando lubonisa ukuba abantu ngaphandle iqabane lakho, nokuba ubudala, ngaphezu lone abantu abakufutshane kunye umntu.

A iqabane lakho ukholisa uncedo ukwenza isakhiwo everyday in life kwaye ingaba ebalulekileyo yinxalenye yakho loluntu womnatha. Yintoni ebalulekileyo ukuze ukumbule ngu ukuba iqabane lakho ayisiso isiqinisekiso ukuba uza zange kangakanani xa uhamba wedwa kwakhona.

Kunjalo, kukho nezinye ezininzi umngcipheko imibandela ukuba unako ukwenza abantu baziva yedwa.

Yintoni ebalulekileyo phambi uzama ukufumana iqabane lakho ukuba sithande kwaye ibe ngabo bathanda, ukuze ingabi xana izixhobo woloyiso loneliness ukuwe.

Uqala ukujonga ngaphakathi kwaye sibone oko ungakwenza ngokwakho ukuba uzive ngcono, kukho ngakumbi ithuba ukuze ube kuhlangana umntu ukukhula kunye. Wam Favorits editorial iqela ubhala yithi rhoqo kuluncedo amanqaku kwi-budlelwane nabanye, omnye ubomi kunye neqabane phendla. Funda ngakumbi amanqaku ibhalwe ngu Wam Favorits editorial.